‘I don’t miss a thing’

Donate, discard, and downsize with peace of mind

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June 20th, 2019
Seabrook Personal Moving Consultant Laurie Williamson identified that the treasured grandfather clock would not fit in the apartment as is. Nick and Mary Ann Cammarano worked with Custom Interiors to install a pocket French door.

Seabrook Personal Moving Consultant Laurie Williamson identified that the treasured grandfather clock would not fit in the apartment as is. Nick and Mary Ann Cammarano worked with Custom Interiors to install a pocket French door.

I’ve been writing about downsizing and moving for nearly 15 years, and the most common remark I hear from people who have done it, goes something like this: “I don’t miss a thing.”

Though getting to that point can be challenging, chances are what you have is much more than what you actually need. One of the many joys of downsizing is that you’ll actually use all of your rooms and none will sit empty collecting dust. 

Perhaps most rewarding: removing what isn’t serving you makes room for what inspires you—like golf, painting, quilting, woodworking, or any number of other hobbies you never had time for.

So, how do you get to that point? These five steps will help you get started.  

1. Edit your belongings.

Start with some basic questions: Will I miss this item? Does this hold good memories or bad? Does this piece bring me joy? What ten items in this room are necessary to my well-being? Is this broken, can it be fixed, and will I actually fix it?

Laurie Williamson, personal moving consultant at Seabrook, an Erickson Living community in Tinton Falls, N.J., suggests a slow and steady approach. “By carving out bite-sized, clearly defined tasks, you can get rid of things you no longer need or use without getting overwhelmed,” says Williamson, who provides complimentary coordination of all realty and moving needs, including downsizing, home staging, packing, and selecting a real estate professional to those moving to Seabrook.

Set your timer for 30 minutes and tackle one drawer or rack at a time. Place two bins or bags by your side. Place clothes in good repair that you no longer wear or that don’t fit in one (to donate or consign) and worn-out or dated items in the other (to toss in a textile recycling bin).

2. Measure everything.

If possible, obtain a floor plan of your new space or measure the rooms and create your own to-scale drawing. Be sure to include doors, windows, and details like bump-outs if you’re measuring on your own.  Then measure the furniture you want to bring and begin placing it on your floor plan.

There are computerized programs that can create the layout for you. If you’re moving to Seabrook, this is Williamson’s wheelhouse. She visits the home of each person moving to the community equipped with measuring tape, a magnetic floor plan of their exact apartment home, and to-scale furniture cutouts. She listens to their lifestyle needs and creates a furniture layout for their new home. 

3. Get rid of what you’re leaving behind.

Once you’ve decided what you love and what will fit in your new home, it’s time to get rid of what didn’t make the cut. You can donate, consign, sell, or a combination of those three. 

Along with creating a floor plan and recommending trusted real estate agents in the area, Williamson provides her clients with resources for donation centers, estate sales, professional move managers, and movers. She helps them develop a downsizing plan and walks them through each step.

4. Adopt a multipurpose mindset. 

Now, it’s time to make your new space work for you. Small but well-dressed rooms can serve many functions.

A den can function as TV room, study, and storage space. A second bedroom can serve as an office, reading room, and guest bedroom. A combined living and dining room allows for great flexibility and increases the number of people you can accommodate when entertaining. 

A sunroom is a prime spot for an art studio, plant sanctuary, desk, and small dining table. The natural sunlight will make it a room where you’ll want to spend ample time, so why not make it a room that fills multiple functions? 

Search for double-duty furniture both in your existing inventory and when you’re out and about, like a sofa console bench that can serve as dining room seating, a coffee table with hidden storage, or an entry table that can function as a desk.

5. Get creative.

Adopt an inventive mentality to storage and décor. 

Display your belongings to free up traditional storage space like cabinets. Do you have a thread collection? Arrange it by color and display it on a shelf. Keep a few unique pieces of your heirloom china to display and give the rest to family members or sell it so you have cash to buy some more functional pieces for your new home.

Think outside the box. You may find the best use for your favorite occasional table from your living room is now as a bedside stand.  

Finally, enjoy your new space and all the freedom it gives you to add more living to your life.